Faces, Spaces & Graces
I really wanted to highlight Queer owned businesses for Pride Month; but, after much thought that was inspired by Alie Ward’s podcast with Guinevere Chambers on Disability Sociology, I wanted to write a post that not only showcases Queer and Disabled Entrepreneurs… but one that celebrates the incredible work, effort & dedication it takes to not just create a business, but often times, to build a brand new space for people to practice passion in.
I grew up in Arizona, which, I wouldn’t define as an ~inclusive state~. I feel fortunate and it has been incredibly liberating to live in Victoria… an environment that is supportive of people and their happiness, no matter who you are, or who you love, or what you like. After being here almost a decade, it still brings tears to my eyes to feel a sense of compassion, acceptance, and joy that comes with getting to be homies with individuals who are so authentically themselves & to be in a space that supports that… is a privilege.
When we talk about accessibility, we need to also talk about space. Space exists, but we need to interrogate who is welcome into it? Who is comfortable in it? Who is it built for? I have a nice lil’ collection of tattoos now, all by incredible artists, all received in diverse spaces ~ and it never really hit me until I was in Wander + Whim’s Tattoo Studio that this space felt different. It was genuinely curated in a unique way, and I could feel that, in my bones + in my body. Space, when used strategically, has the power to be built into safe havens so that people can exist freely and beautifully.
It is always so fun to get to work with family-owned businesses… I believe you get to see a different depth of business, as there is a deeper connection filled with meaningful memories, similar passions, & strategic partnerships already embedded into the every-day. It is even more wonderful to see how non-nuclear family-run businesses create their own unique systems of operation, why they come together to create, & how in doing so, they automatically create a space that easily welcomes and serves such a variety of humans.
I think that a lot of us who have had the privilege of always being automatically accepted into our every-day economy often pass by the thought of what it would be like to not have a safe space offered available to you to do your business, your hygiene + cosmetic errands, and your shopping. What is offered and how it is offered impacts just as heavily as who feels they can freely access goods, services + experiences.
I have loved working & becoming friends with Sam from UNLEASH. There is nothing like watching a badass human on a mission, and nothing moves as quickly as something powered by such goodness. Sam inspired me to UNEASH What’s Good a few years ago, and ever since, she’s been a major role model of mine for continuing to work for what I believe in, to fight for space that can be used in beautiful ways by makers + creators, and to stay true to you.
It’s beautiful to see people as who they are, but what is even more beautiful is the acceptance they revere back into the world, the spaces they create so others can feel their like best selves too, & the dedication it takes to do it day in and day out.
There’s not only enough space for us all to exist in this world, but there’s enough space to exist in ways, where if we work together, we can thrive, we can create, & we can build a community out of the thoughtful, inclusive actions that do create room for existence in new, beautiful & fun ways. Give yourself grace, introduce yourself to a new face, & let’s make some inclusive space.